Having a long-term relationship is a very beautiful thing but it can also lead to a lot of bad things. One of those things is losing the love spark, the chemistry that puts two people together. If the love spark is lost among two lovers, they can either break up or choose to handle it and find a way to reignite it and make that chemistry of theirs work once more.
Being all loving and caring at the beginning of a relationship is easy but after a few years, things get a bit different. Once a relationship full of love, compassion, passion, and care now seems to have cooled down and the spark is dying out until it’s all gone all of a sudden.
Now what? How do you get it back?
Well, the thing that works almost every time is improving your love and sex life. For some people, sex is just an ordinary thing, an obligation. They see love in the same way. Once they get used to the fact that they have a partner so they stop making things interesting. Their relationship becomes a routine. Then you have the other kind of people who see sex, love, and the relationship as an adventure.
That’s exactly what all couples who are trying to reignite that spark need to do. To avoid bedroom boredom, spice things up a bit. Here are two good ways to do it.
Add Some Mystery to Your Relationship
Living with someone pretty much takes away from the whole mystery thing. The most recommended thing to do is to create even the slightest bit of suspense and distance simply because it can miraculously help to establish that mystery. For example, instead of going for dinner together, you can rather meet there. It will add a nice touch of suspense and spice things up a little.
It’ll be like going on a date, a thing that you probably forgot all about. Still, this simple thing can do so much. It also adds a bit of novelty to the whole thing and breaks the routine. Though it may not seem like much, this can make you feel alive. It’s a whole new experience.
Then, you can decide to do something new together, something you haven’t done before. Any activity that will bring something new to the table is what matters the most.
New sport? Why not! New sex position? Absolutely. Be creative and use your imagination. With that in mind, love and relationships are about understanding, about putting your loved one before you but it’s also about sex.
Since you’ll be spending a lot of time together, especially in the bedroom, adding a nice touch of mystery to your love life as well might get your blood pumping. With that in mind, here is something that you need to try for sure.
Love Toys and the X-rated Territory
When we’re talking about reigniting the spark, we’re talking about the misattribution of arousal. Feelings of exhilaration lead you to feel more attracted to your partner because that arouses you in a sexual but also romantic kind of way. Therefore, adding some sex toys to your bedroom endeavors might just do the trick and help you to find that passion in your relationship again.
Trying out new things with your partner is a surefire way to build your relationship and turning it into something better. Even better, if there are things that you feel uncomfortable speaking about with your partner, you know you’re on the right path. Finding sex toys is easy, but picking the right ones is a thing that involves both of you.
By bringing in some bedroom novelties and fun new toys, you open up a whole new dimension to your relationship and love life. It’s completely uncharted territory that you’ve never stepped into before. Feeling excited yet? Well, you will be.
This is a perfect opportunity to have a little chat with your partner about what you both want from each other, how you feel, and what you always wanted to do. It’s all about the two of you getting together to achieve a higher cause – staying together till death do you part.